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If they do not want their children to smoke , they should be a role model instead of still smoking .

According to research , there are also teenagers that don't obey to their parents in their teenage years but turn out to be a sucessful and responsible adult themself . And not all teenagers that obey their parents will tun out to be sucessful and responsible adult . Some of the teenagers because they always obey their parents and rely on them too much . They turn out to be a inresponsible adult and will still rely on their parents when their grow up to be adults because they have no independence .

Parents desicions may not always be the right or the best for us .

Being a parent is by far one of the greatest and most rewarding positions in life. How we raise our children today affects how they will live tomorrow. When, if ever, does a parent stop being a parent? Maybe never but there comes a time when a parent needs to begin to let go of raising their child and simply watch them become their own person.

There are parents who give their children everything the child wants, force them into activities the parents want and make excuses and amends for every mistake the child makes. Is this really parenting? When does the child ever become prepared for a life of independence? The answer is never, in which case the parents are forced to be “parents” their entire life due to parenting choices they adopted early on.

Although parents are parents for life, if they have taken advantage of this great responsibility and privilege, they can come to point that they will be able to sit back and proudly watch their children grow. We often want to look to our parents for advice or a pat on the back as we get older and when our parents have been able to let go of actually parenting, the benefits of the parent/child relationship are two-fold.

Their children will remember those lessons as the parent lets go and the child must stand on their own two feet.

There comes a time when a parent needs to begin to let go of raising their child and simply watch them become their own person

If they always obey their parents , (For example) Their parents ask them to choose the choose the jobs that they don't want , they have their own stand , own rights and old enough to choose the jobs that they want .

If a teenager always obey their parents decisions , when they grow up , they won't be able to make their own decision themself and will always depend on their parents .